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just fine. Let them know you will be there for them by hugging them and repeating it. Note: You might consider preparing for the phone call from camp that they want to come home (naturally fear and missing home). I can say that’s never happened to me and I’m unsure of what to do with that one, but I do know that personally I would try to gently encourage them to stay by hearing them out first then focus on the activities they’ve done so far that were fun and what might be planned next; focusing on them and what they might enjoy there. (This requires self-control on your part- don’t cry or allow your emotions about missing them, or worrying, get to you…take it from this military Mama…that was rule #1 during those hard phone calls home from basic training.)

I’m not a psychologist obviously, so if you are concerned that your child needs more help than just some simple supportive actions, or if you’re concerned about issues otherwise, please consult your pediatrician and/or counselor for appropriate steps. But, if that is not part of the issue, and if you trust where they are, who is guiding and watching over them, and you feel comfortable, just support your child. They usually have fun once they’re there and things get rolling.

To assist you in your own separation anxiety, devote some time to your other children if you have them, spend it with a friend or your spouse, get some cleaning done, go to lunch, catch a movie, or catch up on some sleep. This free time doesn’t come often, and they’ll be back before you know it. Take advantage of it while you can.

I hope some of these ideas and examples better prepare you and your child to be Happy Campers this season. For more common sense and emotionally intelligent parenting stories and ideas, visit our blog: www.FamilyMatterswithAmber.org.