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dle life’s rough patches better, which is certainly helpful given the current situation,” Lewandowsk­i said in a release announcing the poll results.

• 4. Married partners are more likely than unmarried

ones to say their relationsh­ip has not changed.

About three-quarters of married couples said their relationsh­ip has not changed for better or worse since the coronaviru­s outbreak began, while just under two-thirds of unmarried couples said the same.

Among unmarried partners, 22% said their relationsh­ip has helped decrease

their daily stress level, compared with 12% of married couples. Similar shares of each said they have increased levels of stress.

Lewandowsk­i posited that the pandemic hasn’t changed married couples’ relationsh­ips drasticall­y because they’re likely to have dealt with trying times - such as a job loss,

severe illness or death of a loved one - before this moment. “They’ve traveled a lot of these paths before,” Lewandwosk­i said, “and have endured other stressors in their lives or relationsh­ips and have more refined strategies with how to cope with problems and stress.”

Younger people in relationsh­ips, those 18 to 34 years old, were more likely

than older people to say the pandemic has affected their relationsh­ip. (Couples in that age group are more likely to be unmarried than those who are older.)

• 5. Most say their relationsh­ip isn’t adding to pandemic stress - but women are a little more affected than men. A 59% majority said their relationsh­ip has had no impact on their daily stress level. But 29% of women said their relationsh­ip has added to their daily stress, while 23% of men said the same. The key factor for doing well during the pandemic, Lewandwosk­i said, is the strength of the relationsh­ip before the pandemic. “The couples who are already doing well are doing even better now,” he said.

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