The Oklahoman

Putting politics on back burner

- Kathleen Parker WASHINGTON POST WRITERS GROUP

“Not since the Civil War has our country been so divided — a feeling exacerbate­d by campaigns that stressed difference­s rather than common causes. In my small town, I don't recall ever seeing so many political signs standing sentry on lawns and along sidewalks”

TCAMDEN, S.C. hank God that's over — even if it's (maybe) not quite. Never during my lifetime have I been so stressed over a presidenti­al election. I know I'm not alone because everyone I have spoken to recently has said the same. Some people left their hometowns or cities for the woods or higher ground. Some decided now would be a good time to leave the country. I've often wished I could join them.

Not since the Civil War has our country been so divided — a feeling exacerbate­d by campaigns that stressed difference­s rather than common causes. In my small town, I don't recall ever seeing so many political signs standing sentry on lawns and along sidewalks. Maybe it's my imaginatio­n, but the lawn wars felt more competitiv­e than usual.

There's been reason enough for the change in temperatur­e. Donald Trump's 2016 election was a scalpel to the nation's heart. Half the country went blind with rage while the other half accepted ugliness as the coin of the realm.

Making the 2020 campaign all the more taxing, physically and psychologi­cally, was its inextricab­le connectedn­ess to COVID19. Both were plagues upon the nation, if one decidedly more deadly.

Except in wartime, life and death don't usually play such prominent roles in our politics. But waiting in line to vote, surrounded by fellowmask­ed citizens, brought home that the drama in which we're all engaged is not theater. This isn't a dress rehearsal. I looked in front and back of me and wondered who among us was asymptomat­ic. Which of us might end up in the hospital in the next few weeks or months?

It's a morbid thought, but not an unrealisti­c one. Here, Election Day was a glorious, blue-sky reminder of the gift of life, as well as the creation of our democratic republic. It seems unjust that though we celebrate the end of the political season, the seasonal flu and COVID-19 are around the corner. So, we will get (or have gotten) our flu shots, wear (or keep wearing) our masks and try to make the best of social distancing. I wonder if our physical health might improve once our minds are allowed to detox.

Even with the election over, we still have almost 80 days until Inaugurati­on Day. Who knows what spoils or trickery await? Doubtless, resentment­s and contempt will linger among some on the losing side. It would be nice if the winning side would treat others as they would wish to be treated were the outcome otherwise. Even if such wishes were to come true, the path forward will be bumpy with legal challenges and charges of corruption, and various other constructs designed to explain away defeat or justify further delays in closing the deal.

People eager for a return to regular order will have little patience for reruns. There's a tolerance threshold for political bickering — and we're long past it. As we wait for 2021 and a fresh start, we have work to do. There's scaffoldin­g to erect, boardedup store windows to liberate and fences to mend. It will be a relief to be able to speak to friends and neighbors again without fear of offending.

We also have some soulsearch­ing to do. Lame ducks aren't necessaril­y lazy, and a little selfscruti­ny and reflection wouldn't be time wasted. What have we learned from all of this? One possibilit­y: We don't need an Election Day. We did just fine voting, amid the virus, over a length of time and with mail-in ballots, with far less stress and strain.

Most of us have probably also learned while waiting in line to vote that we are not enemies. We don't hate each other. I doubt there were many — or any — who weren't proud to be standing in his or her designated space, six feet away from another person — whose eyes, like one's own, peered over a mask that was intended to protect the other.

That sounds like the old America to me. Let's stop the shouting and keep it anew.

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