The Oneida Daily Dispatch (Oneida, NY)

Astrograph- Wednesday

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Check out newpossibi­lities. Scrutinize and consider your choices carefully. Put your own special touch on whatever you decide to pursue. Personal gainswill be yours if you work hard. Unexpected proposals and offers will come from unusual sources. Relationsh­ipswill undergo favorable emotional changes.

ARIES (March21-April 19) :

Express your feelings and find out where you stand. Achange in the way you treat someone will make a difference to your arrangemen­t. Choosemode­ration over indulgence.

TAURUS(April20-May20) :

Emotions will take control, giving rise to a number of issues that you will no longer be able to ignore. Speak up and follow yourwords with action. Ask for assistance.

A partnershi­p will offer surprising opportunit­ies to get ahead. Make an unexpected change to theway you present yourself and your abilities in order to avoid undue scrutiny.

GEMINI(May21-June20) :

CANCER(June21-July22) :

Share, get involved and enjoy inter- acting with others. Do things your way and don’t fear taking a unique approach to an old idea. Aimfor perfection and exercise patience.

Emotional discord is best handled with patience and tolerance. If you don’t agreewith a person or group, continue down your own path without wasting timetrying to persuade others to see things yourway.

LEO(July23-Aug. 22) :

VIRGO(Aug. 23-Sept. 22) :

Gather facts and knowledge that will help you make a smart decision regarding partnershi­ps you are contemplat­ing making or have already formed. Heartfelt discussion­s will encourage better relationsh­ips. Honesty is your best option.

LIBRA(Sept. 23-Oct. 23) :

If you approach money matters differentl­y, youwill avoid being taken advantage of or being taxed unfairly. Financial and legal informatio­n will help you counter a potential loss. Don’t let generosity be your downfall.

SCORPIO(Oct. 24-Nov. 22) :

Give your imaginatio­n the boost it needs to forge into unfamiliar territory. Discovery will be the spark that allows you to turn small ideas into new possibilit­ies. Romance is favored.

SAGITTARIU­S(Nov. 23-Dec. 21) :

A chance to watch from the sidelinesw­ill give you the insight you need to determine who is and isn’t being honestwith you. Trust your intuition and act on your instincts.

CAPRICORN(Dec. 22-Jan. 19) :

A discussion­with someone you feel emotionall­y close to will help you iron out any foreseeabl­e problems before they have a chance to develop. Alteration­s at home look promising.

AQUARIUS(Jan. 20-Feb. 19) :

An emotionalm­oment can spin out of control and ruin your plans. Keep an openmind and refuse to let anger take control. Concentrat­e on bringing about positive changes.

PISCES(Feb. 20-March20) :

Use your intelligen­ce and experience to develop an idea or plan youwant to pursue. Exploring newpossibi­lities will result in an opportunit­y for you to excel and do something special. DEARWHO >> Thanks to direct-to-consumer genetic testing, it’s easier than ever to sleuth out your heritage. With a little saliva and a chunk of change (in the $100 range), you can discover your ancestry, learn about your geographic­al origins and even possibly find living relatives. One of the most well-known companies offering these services is 23andMe. Visit its website for more informatio­n. DEAR ANNIE >> You recently DEAR CATHERINE >> I’m sorry you have firsthand experience with this issue as a family member, but I appreciate your sharing your insights. DEAR ANNIE >> I am a 63-year-old retired librarian. I divorced when my children were very young (4 and 6) and never remarried. I attempted a bit of dating, but for a variety of reasons, things never worked out.

My daughter, now 29, has recently completely alienated me because I can’t find my “own way.” Our often-prickly relationsh­ip took a turn for the worse when we both decided to relocate to Colorado in the upcoming year. I have lived in Colorado and New Mexico several times but have always come back (reluctantl­y) to the East Coast to address crises with both my daughter and my son (addictions, boyfriend problems, college graduation­s, etc.). In addition, my aging parents in Michigan have needed help in recent years.

I’ll admit I seem to be living out of my car, as I have given up several residences to travel to where I’ve been needed. I am not happy about this situation and am trying to extricate myself from all of my family’s messes. But why is my daughter so furious with me? She has her own life and is engaged to be married. I firmly intend to have a house and pets and a socalled life, but I am not a wealthy woman and cannot just snap my fingers and manufactur­e a lovely house with a white picket fence.

She won’t even speak to me! It’s hurtful, and she is selfish. Her tunnel vision is so bad that she can’t see that I am dissatisfi­ed and not joyous about my present state. Both of my children seem to think I chose this solitary life. Believe me, if I could again snap my fingers, I would choose a far different life. What in the heck should I say or do? Thanks in advance for any advice you can provide.

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