Help correct those who make wrong judgements

May 19, on a rainy and cold day, I set myself out to do business. I must admit that I have come to truly enjoy Central New York and feel a genuine connection with a great number of people, with rare exceptions. May 19 was one of them.

Some of you may already know me as the “Guacamole” lady. Rightfully so, this product is an extension and expression of who I am. Sometimes it also reflects my state of being; for example, some of my regular customers can pick up subtleties like at times it is a bit spicier, or less salt, etc. By the same token I can pick out my customers, and deliberately pick out certain areas where more people appreciate my product than others. That day, I was making an effort to make a sale under a cold tent, with rain all around me, and hardly any customers. When a couple with kids passed by about 10 to 15 feet in front of my tent, the “gentleman” looked my way. I asked if he was interested in sampling my product. With a loud “No” he also expressed his judgment towards “Mexicans,” stating he doesn’t support Mexicans and that they ought to be on the other side...I overlooked and continued to ac- knowledge his presence, and my helper, a noble gentleman, made no comment as though in shame. His quiet demeanor spoke more than the other being who seemed to be struggling with what he represents.

After I came home, I realized this man was attempting to stand for something and was finally recovering a voice, though off mark.

Furthermore, I have got to give credit to Donald Trump; it became clear Trump is giving people back their voice, and this man represents many other Americans who were losing their voice and understanding of what it means to be a true American.

Though he felt safe to express himself without making any attempt to communicate with me face-to-face and get a deeper understanding, he made a wrong judgment based on the colors and banners of a product that certainly represents a part of what it means to be a true American. Detached from cultural beliefs and upbringing, in my spiritual journey I know who I am and confident that I, better than the average U.S. citizen, practice and understand what it means to be a true American. Not always 100 percent but I can correct myself and accept correction. I could

see through this man that he was attempting to support Donald Trump and was empowered to speak up. I could also see this person could easily become a supporter of someone like former president Obama.

My point is, that even when one is wrong in their views towards another, it is of great benefit to see where and how your “neighbor” sees you, so that you may either correct yourself, correct him, or just let it go and be like Jesus, with your soul untouched.

Amelia Wasiluk, Oneida