The Oneida Daily Dispatch (Oneida, NY)

My Daddy Is a Hero

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When Grace was 3 years old, she went to preschool for the first time. Her momand dad came to school events and met her friends at school. But her classmates had a lot of questions about Grace’s dad.

Veterans Day is celebrated on Nov. 11. This week, The Mini Page tells the story of Grace’s dad, her family and many other veterans of the U.S. armed services.

Wounded by war

Mike Verardo, Grace’s dad, enlisted in the U.S. Army after the attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, in New York City; Arlington, Virginia; and Shanksvill­e, Pennsylvan­ia. In 2009, he was sent to Afghanista­n as an infantryma­n with the 82nd Airborne Division.

In April 2010, Mike was struck by an explosive device known as an IED. He was badly injured and lost his left leg and the use of his left arm. He also had bad burns and suffered damage to his brain. Doctors thought he might not live.

Mike’s brain injury affected his balance and motor skills, along with skills needed to manage himself. He can do many things on his own, but he needs help with some daily tasks.

A proud family

Three years after his injury, Mike and Sarah, his girlfriend, got married. Grace was born a year later, and now she has two little sisters.

For Grace, her daddy always had one mechanical, or prosthetic (prahs-THEH-tick), leg that he could remove. For her, his left arm was always paralyzed. And many of her dad’s friends also had new legs and arms.

But when Grace first went to preschool, another student made a lot of comments about her dad. She told Grace her daddy was “gross.”

First, Grace corrected her, saying her daddy is a hero and is not gross. Then she told her mom, Sarah, about the comments.

Teaching children

Sarah decided she needed to help her children understand that although their daddy’s body had changed, he still had the same heart. So she wrote “Hero at Home,” a picture book for young kids about veterans with severe injuries.

“Children are naturally curious,” Sarah Verardo told The Mini Page. “It’s OK for kids to say hello and ask about” Mike’s leg or his wheelchair. She hopes that with so many wounded veterans in our society, today’s children will grow up to accept them and work for their rights.

Sarah said one of the most important messages of “Hero at Home” is that Mike is still working hard to get better. He has long hospital stays and more surgery ahead, and his family will need to support him for the rest of his life.

American veterans

Sarah Verardo said Mike “wore the uniform (of the U.S. Army) proudly.” He wanted to serve “to protect the freedoms of all Americans,” she writes in the book.

“Families serve along with them,” Sarah said. “We’re proud, too.”

It’s important that we remember and celebrate our veterans every day of the year, but Veterans Day gives us a chance to show our service members how much we appreciate their sacrifice, or something given up for someone else.

The holiday falls on Nov. 11, the anniversar­y of the end of World War I.

Helping other veterans

“Hero at Home” was written for children of disabled veterans, but it will also help veterans themselves. Sales of the book will benefit The Independen­ce Fund, an organizati­on that provides wheelchair­s and other mobility aids to veterans, along with help for caregivers and support for sports programs for disabled veterans.

 ?? all photos courtesy Sarah Verardo ?? Mini Fact: There are about 4 million wounded veterans in the United States.
all photos courtesy Sarah Verardo Mini Fact: There are about 4 million wounded veterans in the United States.
 ??  ?? “Hero at Home” was illustrate­d by Inna Eckman.
“Hero at Home” was illustrate­d by Inna Eckman.
 ??  ?? Grace helps her dad attach his prosthetic leg.
Grace helps her dad attach his prosthetic leg.
 ??  ?? Mike in Afghanista­n.
Mike in Afghanista­n.

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