Would you want to know if your child was bullied at school?
If your child was bullied in school, wouldn’t you want to know?
That’s the question I’ve asked many times to parents, education officials and my colleagues in the legislature and not a single person has said, “no, I’d rather not know.”
Unfortunately, due to a loophole in state law, many parents are not being kept informed about incidents of bullying taking place in the institutions we trust to educate and look after the safety and well-being of our children each day.
As any adult can attest, bullying has existed within the bricks and mortar of our schools for years. It used to be that once a child left school grounds and got off the bus they were largely free from the unforgiving taunts and physical abuse caused by bullies.
The prevalence of social media and smart phones have compounded the problem by giving bullies a weapon of mass destruction to harass and torment their victims exponentially 24-7.
Thanks to the internet and social media apps like TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitter, there is no escape and no sanctuary from the emotional trauma inflicted by bullies.
And certainly, when the pain gets so great, they not only hurt themselves but can strike out against the bullies in violent ways.
Besides the physical abuse, every child’s step or misstep, can now be videoed, photographed and messaged on social media for the whole world to see and potentially ridicule.
In 2012, the Dignity for All Students Act became law as a means to address bullying in our schools. Although schools are required to report incidents to the state Education Department, the Dignity for All Students Act does not require schools to alert parents when their child has been bullied or is believed to be the perpetrator of bullying. The law currently leaves it up to each school district to develop its own policy for parental notification.
Sadly, this serious gap in state law has led to fatal consequences.
In April 2015, 13-yearold Jacobe Taras of Moreau, here in Saratoga County, tragically took his own life as a result of bullying. Jacobe’s parents, Christine and Richard Taras, say they were not notified by Jacobe’s school of the extent of bullying he faced. This is not an isolated incident. There are many heartbreaking stories of young people injuring themselves or worse yet taking or attempting to take their own lives because of bullying.
That’s why I am sponsoring legislation, “Jacobe’s Law,” named in Jacobe Taras’s memory to require that schools notify parents when a child is being threatened by a bully. “Jacobe’s Law” (Senate bill S.44) requires that school employees charged with receiving reports of harassment, bullying or discrimination contact the parents or guardians of the students involved — both the bullies and the victims — in an incident of bullying or harassment.
Bullying is defined based on what’s listed in the Dignity for All Students Act under Article 2 of the state’s Education Law and it outlines what incidences schools are currently required to report to the Education Department.
“Jacobe’s Law” is a nonpartisan bill, with several Democratic sponsors which twice passed the Senate when I was in the Majority. Assemblywoman Mary Beth Walsh is sponsoring the bill in the Assembly.
I also am sponsoring legislation, Senate Bill S.2044, to enable parents to view interior school bus camera video when a report of bullying has been made. This measure is sponsored in the Assembly by Assemblyman Matt Simpson.
At this past week’s state budget education hearing, I asked both the state Education Commissioner and the New York City Education Commissioner about the need to change the law to ensure parental notification when a child is bullied at school. To their credit, they both responded in support of parents being notified if their child is involved in an incident of bullying.
Schools should make parents aware of threats of violence to their children so that a parent or guardian can take action they deem appropriate and have input on decisions of how best to protect their child’s safety and emotional well-being.
Our educational system continues to ask and urge parents to be more involved in their children’s education through the PTA, parent teacher interaction, providing input on their child’s
curriculum, and volunteering at our schools, yet we don’t require schools to notify them of incidents of emotional and physical bullying. That just doesn’t make sense.
If the statistics and incidences of bullying are important enough to report to the administrators at State Ed, then they are important enough to make parents aware of to intervene to develop a plan of action and potentially help avert a tragedy.
My heart continues to go out to the Taras family and all the families that have faced this devastating tragedy related to bullying. I can only hope that through “Jacobe’s Law” we can bring about a positive change that can involve parents in helping to stop bullying and save lives.
Senator Jim Tedisco (R,C44th Senate District) represents all of Saratoga County, Niskayuna and the City of Schenectady.