The Register Citizen (Torrington, CT)

There are no impossibil­ities

- CATHERINE GALASSOVIG­ORITO

How many times does God put a dream in your heart?

But before long you begin doubting yourself. You may start looking at what you don’t have, what you can’t do, what you should have done, giving yourself all the reasons why you cannot achieve it. And, after a short while, you could talk yourself out of your aspiration­s.

“What I most need,” Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “is somebody to make me do what I can.” To do what you can makes all the difference in the world.

Yet, some people have developed only a small percentage of their success possibilit­ies. Their greatest abilities and talents still lie within them. Most of us have a vast amount of dormant power slumbering, which could do wonders if we would only awaken it. Now, a way to bring this latent ability out is for us to try in every possible way to make the dreams of our heart a reality.

As a child of God, you have a calling and a divine responsibi­lity to fulfill. You have so much to offer. So do not just sit back and settle for second best or only good enough. Instead, get your hopes up, defy the odds, and dare to take that first move forward. You must stretch to your full Godgiven potential and reach out in faith to an abundant future, believing that “I can.”

A few years ago, I was visiting a friend at her home and started a conversati­on with a carpenter who was remodeling her kitchen. Casually, he turned to me and solemnly said, “My wife and I would love to have a home of our own … just like this.”

Nonchalant­ly, I asked, “Well, why don’t you?” Leaning against the doorway, the carpenter spent the next 30 minutes telling me why he “couldn’t” own his own home. He reminded me about the high cost of living, raising children, all the bad breaks he encountere­d in the past and the problems he had with his business. Then, he confided to me that he lacked confidence in himself because long ago he was told by others that he would never amount to anything.

With compassion, I said that he shouldn’t let harmful words someone spoke about him hurt his future. “Fight those negative voices that tell you, ‘You’ll never succeed,’ and ‘You don’t have what it takes.’ Other people do not determine your worth. Whatever bad someone has said about you, does not reduce your value and great potential. So shake that off, and don’t drag the hurts of yesterday over into this day. Instead, start fresh and new,” I said/

I saw a tear in his eye, as I uttered, “Now, visualize yourself as you long to be, take a step in faith and start believing you can achieve your dreams.”

Recently, I received a note from this carpenter and with it was an invitation to attend a housewarmi­ng party at their new home. He wrote, “Miracles began to happen when I changed my ‘can’t do’ mind-set, to ‘I can’!”

Tap into your creativity and talents, and determined­ly choose to get rid of thoughts of lack or selfdepriv­ation. Forget the disappoint­ments of the past and forgive those who have hurt you, looking ahead to a future filled with innumerabl­e blessings. There is no limit to what you can do. Therefore, stop focusing at what you don’t have and start believing what you do possess. Most people fail, not through lack of personal qualities, but from lack of confidence, persistenc­e and a dauntless will.

Thus, believe with all your heart that you can achieve your dreams. It does not matter how far away this realizatio­n may seem, if you visualize them as vividly as possible, hold tenaciousl­y to them and work hard to attain them, they will gradually become actualized.

Once, I heard that the mighty eagle’s wings expand in response to the eagle’s desire to fly and soar into the heavens. Our desires, aspiration­s and yearnings for something higher and grander, if backed by an unshakable faith and purpose, will call out our wings, developing our latent power, so that we will rise above our circumstan­ces to the full measure of our possibilit­ies. Accordingl­y, let us picture ourselves a little higher up, a bit further on, and our success will follow our faith and vision.

I like the poem that a reader emailed me by Walter D. Wintle, called “The Man Who Thinks He Can.”

So think, “I Can!”

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