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Close to famous
Hollywood publicist Dan Harary tells of a life of celebrity encounters — and his newfound brush with the spotlight
Dan Harary's life has been filled with celebrity encounters.
Long before he became a publicist in Hollywood, Harary was a celebrity magnet.
At 15, he started working at the Sunshine In, a concert hall in Asbury Park, New Jersey. It was 1972 and on his first night on the job, he had his first encounter with a famous person. Musician Richie Havens performed that evening and Harary asked him to sign a poster for that show, which he framed and still has hanging in his Beverly Hills home.
It was that poster that inspired Harary to write his book, “Flirting With Fame: A Hollywood Publicist Recalls 50 Years of Celebrity Close Encounters.” The book chronicles the famous folks Harary came in contact with — for better or worse. He'll be at Book Soup in West Hollywood on Wednesday for an in-person book discussion and signing. Introducing him will be his friend Dee Wallace, an actress he met on the set of “The New Lassie” in the late '80s.
“Last year, during a time when we were still locked down because of COVID, I was turning 65 and I looked at that poster in my living room and I thought, ‘Wow, that was 50 years ago,' ” Harary said during a recent phone interview. “I just took out a piece of paper and a pen and I started writing down as many celebrity names as I could think of — and there were hundreds. I wrote it in a very linear way and when I was done, I said, ‘Well, I guess this is a book.' ”
Harary grew up with working-class parents who were musically gifted, he said. His dad played trombone in marching bands and his mother was a singer. Harary played piano until “The Monkees” television series debuted in 1966, and he ditched the keys for a drum kit to be more like his new hero, Micky Dolenz. He would meet Dolenz 20 years later at an Alice Cooper show, feeling disbelief he was casually chatting with his idol.
Since Harary played in bands in high school, his job at the Sunshine In was a dream gig. He got to meet Fleetwood Mac and Kiss. He also hung out with Bruce Springsteen, though he admits he was never really a fan of his music. He had many encounters with Springsteen in those early years, including one instance when he and his mother were in the car and saw Springsteen hitchhiking. Though Harary knew him, he shrugged him off and they blew right past The Boss.
“Now that I've been doing these book signings, after I get through the Bruce section, I look up and I go, ‘Bruce, I'm so sorry my mother and I didn't give you a ride that day,'” he said with a laugh. “And I mean it, too.”
Harary's celebrity encounters continued through college. He attended Boston University at the same time as Howard Stern, and he met several stars working at Columbia Pictures in New York, including a chance meeting with comedian Joan Rivers,
who told him if he wanted to be a comedy writer, he needed to move to Los Angeles. He did, and though the comedy writing thing never panned out, he did go on to find several other jobs in the entertainment business. He worked at the Playboy Channel and at various publicity firms before starting his own company, Asbury PR.
Harary said his all-time favorite movie is Steven Spielberg's “Close Encounters of the Third Kind,” and of course he eventually met the director at an event at Universal Studios Hollywood in 2010.
Harary said he knew he couldn't just tell the filmmaker how much he loved his movies.
“So I walked up and I said, ‘Hi, my name is Dan and your mother makes the best blintzes I've ever had in my life,' ” Harary said. Harary and his own mother would often walk to The Milky Way, a kosher restaurant just down the street from his house on Pico Boulevard in Los Angeles, which was owned by Spielberg's mother, Leah Adler. He said they enjoyed the blintzes and chats with Adler about her “lovely boy” Steve.
“He just looked at me and said, ‘You know what, you're right; she does make