Gay returns to sprint with a heavy heart
Sprinter Tyson Gay, the American Record holder in the 100 meter dash, nearly retired after his 15-year-old daughter was shot and killed. However, the 34-year-old has returned to try and honor her memory.
SACRAMENTO » She ran the 100 and 200 meters — just like dad. She was so fast and would’ve been a college standout. This he has no doubt.
That’s why Tyson Gay nearly walked away from racing. It was too painful with his daughter gone. So painful that when he trains he feels the stress in his back and can’t shake it off.
Only, she wouldn’t want him to quit. So he keeps sprinting in the memory of his 15-year-old daughter, Trinity , who was shot and killed in October outside a restaurant in Lexington, Kentucky.
“It’s crushing and it never goes away. But you try to live with it,” said Gay , who competes in the first round of the 100 on Thursday night at the U.S. track and field championships. “You try to think about the good times.”
Like how she used to visit him in Florida for spring break or Thanksgiving. Or how they had the same teacher in high school and the teacher once playfully told Trinity how much better of a student she was than her father. Or how when he couldn’t spell a word, he would turn and ask her.
Out of habit, he still does that.
“I think about my daughter every day,” Gay said as he sat in a hotel lobby after a training session. “Every day.” He didn’t hear the phone ring in the early morning hours on Oct. 16. His sister came downstairs and woke him up. Trinity was shot outside a Lexington restaurant after witnesses told police that gunfire was exchanged between two vehicles. She was hit by a stray round. There have been four charged in connection with her death.
“You’re upset you couldn’t be there to stop it,” Tyson Gay said. “It was just a group of honor students, going out to have a good time. And something like that happens? Crazy.
“I cried on the plane the whole way home. I was numb. I probably never cried that hard in my life.” The tears keep flowing . “The funeral, the wake, the burial, everything was unreal,” Gay said. “It’s been eight months and it still seems unreal . ... I don’t think you ever have peace. I’ve learned to think about the good times, try to block that image of her death out of my mind.”
For the next month, it was hard for him to do much of anything, let alone return to track. After all, running was their thing.
Trinity was a sprinter at Lafayette High in Lexington and finished fourth in the 100 and fifth in the 200 at the state Class 3A high school track meet in May 2016. She also ran on a 4x200 relay team that finished fourth.