HOW TO: Choose an assisted living facility

With the vast array of assisted living and retirement communities that are available for seniors to choose from these days, the idea of selecting one may seem a little overwhelming. But making the right choice will be easier when you start the looking process well prepared. You want to keep the focus on finding a home that will not only meet the needs of you or your loved one but will also keep you happy for years to come.

The first thing to take into consideration is location. Depending on your own particular needs, you may be looking for an assisted living near the local hospital and physician offices, or you may be looking for one closer to shopping, golfing and other entertainment. Or, when it comes to location, your only desire may be to find a facility that is near your family and friends.

The next feature you need to consider is what you are going to require when it comes to living space. You may be moving from a large home with many bedrooms and plenty of square footage and while most assisted living facilities offer a variety of floor plans and sizes, you will still be downsizing. Many facilities can show you a decorated model apartment which can give you a better idea when it comes to the placement of furniture and what will fit.

Amenities are another important part of the decision making process. Think about the different activities you enjoy. Some communities may have pools, libraries, theaters and beauty salons on-site. Some may also employ full-time activity directors who will lead a variety of daily social activities such as bingo and ice-cream socials.

Finally, make a list to prioritize your preferences and set a budget. Once you have found a facility that you feel meets these requirements, call them and schedule a tour. Take a family member or friend along to tour with you as well as a list of questions for the staff. Also, it is important to keep safety features in mind. Think not only of your current needs but what you may require in the future, especially if you have a progressive disease such as Alzheimers.

Some important questions to ask are:

• Can I see a list of all the fees, rules and regulations?

• When are services billed?

• Can I continue to see my own physicians?

• Is there a pet policy?

• Can I come and go as I please or do I sign out?

• What activities are prohibited?

• Is there a nurse or other medical staff available at all times?

• What happens if I run out of money?

• Do you accept Medicaid, VA Aid and Assistance, long-term care insurance or any other payment program?

• What circumstances would force a resident to move out of the facility?

• If I require a higher level of care in the future, is that available at this community?

• If I have a long-term stay in a hospital or rehabilitation facility, do you hold my apartment?

• How many apartments are currently available and can I get on a waiting list?

Keep in mind that being proactive is always a good thing, so start your search before the need arises. Know what is available to you, and stay informed. A good placed to start is to ask family, friends and others in your community for their recommendations. There are many social circles such as local civic clubs and church groups who can provide helpful information, as well as senior directories and local newspapers.