Finding your power
Begin with that annoying activity, decluttering
As so many others have experienced during these emotionally testing times, a deeply personal relationship came to a screeching halt, sinking me to the depths of the dark ocean floor. I tried to get out of my funk by reciting the title of George Harrison’s first album when he broke away from the Beatles: All Things Must Pass.
It worked for about a week, but nothing seemed to pass. Then I tried the words of the spiritual author Ram Dass, Be Here Now. Being in the “Now” was making me lose my mind. Neither mantra seemed to assuage my grief.
Keep front entries well-lit and clear of shoes, sports gear and pet paraphernalia. Place a welcoming bouquet of flowers on a key table. Keep them fresh.
Place plants such as Boston fern, jade and Ficus alii near computers and routers. They’ll lift your activity, decluttering. I assure you, spirit and help concentration. though, once you start you’ll be an Since most of us do online bankunstoppable freight train. It will ing, add an African violet for cash flow.feelstrangelysatisfying.Youmight even wonder why the heck it took Make sure your desk faces the a global pandemic for those long door but is not in direct alignment. awaited changes to your home. The entrance should be visible Should you suspect you’re on either from the left or the right. the hoarder end of the spectrum, This is called the commanding enlist a friend or family member to position. I call it the driver’s seat. cheer you on. Use diffusers in bedrooms for more restful sleep. Lavender is soothing and neroli is calming. Purchase high-quality and responsibly sourced essential oils. ( You’ll be breathing them.) Clean the diffusers weekly.
Keep your windows clean. They are your eyes onto the world.
I was reading a book I hadn’t picked up in some years. In the margins I had scribbled a notation, “Shifting awareness creates a different trajectory.” Well, that was no coincidence. It was time to transform my leaden sadness into golden happiness.
Ultimately I would need to look to my favorite feng shui tools to assist in reclaiming my power. Here are a few I’d like to share with you. They are simple and can pull you through times that have led you to question your own strength.
Remember to be gentle with yourself. Take baby steps. The most effective feng shui is slow and steady.
We begin with that annoying
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Purchase a new doormat. Nature and animal designs attract positive energy. Avoid negative sayings such as, “Go Away” and “Welcome-ish.”
DON’T
Place beds, sofas and desks under stairs. The energy here pushes downward and can be oppressive. Bookcases are better suited.
Leave dirty dishes in the sink overnight. Their energy inhibits good kitchen chi to circulate. Load them into the dishwasher.
Use chipped mugs and glasses. They represent poverty and can also cut your mouth.
Stefania Masoni, an associate broker with Sotheby’s International Realty, has been a feng shui master for over 20 years with clients all over the world. Through her knowledge of feng shui, she finds buyers great homes and assists sellers in preparing their properties for smooth closings. See masonifengshuistudio.com or call (505) 906-1600.