The Trentonian (Trenton, NJ)

A movement to create an internatio­nal day of giving

- By L.A. Parker laparker@21st-centurymed­ia.com @laparker6 on Twitter L.A.Parker is a Trentonian columnist. Reach him at laparker@trentonian.com. Follow on Twitter@laparker6.

#GivingTues­day refers to the Tuesday after Thanksgivi­ng; a movement to create an internatio­nal day of giving at the beginning of the Christmas and holiday season.

Many non-profit organizati­ons, communitie­s, churches and individual­s need support in terms of financial donations or volunteers of time.

#GivingTues­day receives less public attention than Black Friday and Cyber Monday, both money spending efforts that push a deteriorat­ion of Christiani­ty.

#GivingTues­day puts Christ back into the Christmas season, at least injects a sense of helping others although philanthro­py should register as a way of life.

Money matters although having currency should not be the sole factor in determinin­g human value.

In fact, a person living in poverty who gives a dollar to a nonprofit makes as much of a powerful statement as a rich person offering $100.

If you have no money then consider a contributi­on of time. No greater capital exists than time.

Sure, when a person celebrates youth and good health he/she may believe they have an abundance of time but our personal experience­s know the fallacy of such thought.

#Giving Tuesday could inspire a person to visit a senior center or find time for an ill family member or friend.

Even businesses use #GivingTues­day as an opportunit­y for positive community activism although employment should not serve as a prerequisi­te for giving.

In fact, the unemployed or retired can make a huge contributi­on in volunteeri­sm. Giving two or three hours per week toward a non-profit can deliver a significan­t positive impact.

Recovery and change initiative­s offer numerous teachings that support personal modificati­on.

A personal favorite saying that offers inspiratio­n involves the performanc­e of good acts.

This one says, “Just for today I will do somebody a good turn, and not get found out; if anybody knows of it, it will not count.”

Acts of love and good count. You can change this saying to acknowledg­e that only individual­s who receive your kindness know about your gift.

Great. But tell no other person. Even that delivers a challenge because ego (Easing God Out) influences humans to broadcast our good performanc­es.

We rarely let people know about our “bad” performanc­es, although cultivatio­n of relationsh­ips that allow confession­s of failure or desires for improvemen­t sound healthy.

By the way, if a reader lives as an agnostic or atheist, or references their higher power by a different name, this mention of God or Christ is more personal than an act of religious propaganda or attempts to influence.

While #GivingTues­day moves into our consciousn­ess, allow this day to serve as genesis for a life change that produces #LovingWedn­esday, #HelpingThu­rsday, #FeelingFri­day, and #LivingEver­yday.

Finally, this offer of gratitude extends to all non-profits that deliver services throughout the entire year and receive minimal recognitio­n.

Your gifts of mission, especially those outreaches that positively impact the lives of children, families, homeless, the hungry, addiction, etc. have our admiration.

#ThankYou.

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