The Trentonian (Trenton, NJ)

Family raising money for those out of work right now

- Jeff Edelstein Columnist Jeff Edelstein is a columnist for The Trentonian. He can be reached at jedelstein@ trentonian.com, facebook. com/jeffreyede­lstein and @ jeffedelst­ein on Twitter.

When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade.

When life takes the lemons - and everything else away - from the bartenders, the Tramo family of Hamilton is making lemonade for them.

OK fine. That metaphor was DOA, but whatever: The Tramos - Mia, 13, Raffaele, 11, and Gemma, 8 - along with an assist from their parents, Benny and Krissy - have started a GoFundMe page with the express purpose of helping out Hamilton workers who are currently out of business. Meaning, people who can’t work from home. Meaning, my failed-metaphor bartender on down. And up. And out in every which way.

“My wife - who is a teacher - and I used the situation as a teaching opportunit­y,” said Benny. “We talked about how virus is impacting lives and business, and how we’re lucky enough to work from home, but there’s many people who have jobs in restaurant­s, or are hairstylis­ts, or any number of people who are unable to go to work and unable to make money.”

Mom and dad - no social media fiends, as they (gasp!) don’t even have a Facebook page watched in awe as their kids leapt into action.

“Mia said, ‘let’s start a GoFundMe page,’ and they were off and running,” Benny said. “It’s the kids’ project, we help and guide, but it’s really all them. Mia really helped in putting together a story, my son took the lead on the computer by creating the page and thanking everyone as the donations come in, and my youngest - the only not shy one in the family - was happy to go in front of camera and record the video.”

To date, the page - gofundme. com/f/covid19-worker039s-relief-fund - has collected nearly $2,000, and the Tramos hope to work with Hamilton Mayor Jeff Martin to help distribute the funds. (And it’s going to be more than $2,000, right readers???) (Oh, and this just in: Martin has Tramo’s number now. They’ll be connecting.)

“We’re at $1,800 right now, but there’s a big difference between $1,800 or $18,000. We would love to help as many families as we possibly could, dependent on how much we raise.”

In the meantime, the Tramos - like countless other families in Hamilton, Mercer Country, New Jersey, America, North America, and the rest of the world - are finding themselves under lockdown conditions and trying to make the best of it.

And they are. In fact, they’re practicall­y a poster family for life under quarantine.

“We have a crazy, active lifestyle,” Benny said. “Kids all over the place, soccer and baseball and dance, the kids are eating different times, I’m working late … So yes, the silver lining is we get to spend a lot more time as a family.”

Krissy Tramo, a first grade teacher at Robinson, put it best. (Before we get to the quote to end this column, I’m telling you: Wives and mothers are the MVPs of this coronaviru­s. We men need to get a statue committee working for when this is over.

“It gave us, personally, an opportunit­y to slow down,” Krissy said. “At end of the day, it’s an opportunit­y to spend time together. And with the GoFundMe page, we decided to try and make some good out of a sad situation.”

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Gemma, Raffaele, and Mia Tramo of Hamilton.
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