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L.A. Parker: The lessons of 2020 should stick around »

- L.A. Parker L.A. Parker is a Trentonian columnist. Find him on Twitter @LAParker6 or email him at LAParker@Trentonian.com.

Many people want to put Year 2020 in the rear view mirror. Slow your roll. It’s still 2020. Still Christmas time. And, still Kwanzaa. Plus, it’s good to hold onto memories about tough times — they serve as perfect mike markers later on when a person triumphs.

Trenton Music Makers posted a similar message about this past year.

......”let’s not rush to slam the door on 2020. We can do better than that.

“When we bid farewell to this year and welcome the new one, maybe we can remember this as the year when we learned how compassion­ate we could be, how much we could rely on friends and neighbors, how much we still have to learn from listening to people whose life stories and experience of this country are different from ours.”

“Without a doubt, we will remember it as the year that we doubled down on our appreciati­on of what we can accomplish simply by being connected to each other. When our kids pick up instrument­s and look each other in the eye, something powerful has already begun.”

One thing about time on beautiful boulevards or bad streets — it gets here and leaves, too. Think about all the memories we have from the past 364 days.

This year started with the inaugurati­on ceremony for Hamilton Twp. Mayor-Elect Jeff Martin.

A conversati­on resurfaces with Mercer County Sheriff Jack Kemler and his brother, Bobby, inside the Stone Terrace ballroom.

We discussed growing up poor but with parents who worked hard and who offered instructio­n on life. Our stories about hardships sounded similar.

Who knew that 2020 would make all of us even more equal, susceptibl­e to a killer virus as COVID-19 showed no prejudice, bias or discrimina­tion.

Coronaviru­s brought life and death into focus. We all sailed in the same boat, uncertain about the next moment, let alone next week, month or year.

We move on with hopes that last year made us more observant of passing time and passers by.

Make no mistake that individual­s need personal agendas, resolution­s and extreme desires to make a difference in their families, relationsh­ips and communitie­s.

A personal resolution remains committed to making a positive difference in the 100 block of Franklin St. Period.

Will continue to wear a mask, watch my distance and to wash my hands regularly as part of our collective effort for eliminatio­n of COVID-19.

The pandemic clouds one resolution made annually. Travel, especially to Costa Rica, remains on hold.

Intend to continue organizati­on of my life, lose eight pounds, pursue all examinatio­ns to improve health and to establish distance from political agendas.

Let’s make 2021 a spectacula­r time.

Happy New Year.

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BEN HIDER — THE ASSOCIATED PRESS Confetti falls at midnight on last year’s Times Square New Year’s Eve celebratio­n in New York.
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