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After struggles, Leaf finds ‘ peaceful life’
To help others, famed draft bust tells his addiction story
Last week, Ryan Leaf was discussing plans to attend the event linked to his unofficial title: Biggest NFL Draft Bust Ever.
Yes, the retired quarterback will be at the NFL draft Thursday for the first time since the San Diego Chargers selected Leaf in 1998 with the No. 2 overall pick — right after the Indianapolis Colts selected Peyton Manning at No. 1.
Leaf, 40, will be provide analysis for ESPN.
“I tell people I have the life of my dreams right now,” Leaf told USA TODAY Sports. “And some of the snarky comments that come back are that, no, Peyton Manning has the life of Ryan’s dreams.”
In defense of the snarky: Manning has two Super Bowl rings, hundreds of millions of dollars and a spot in the Pro Football Hall of Fame all but reserved.
Leaf, by contrast, has spent almost as much time in prison ( 32 months) as he did in the NFL ( three seasons) and battled a painkiller addiction that led to the prison sentence and, according to Leaf, left him virtually bankrupt.
So maybe Manning is living Leaf’s dreams, after all?
“I had to think about it for a minute. But it’s not true,” Leaf said. “When I got to San Diego, I made a speech about how my hope was to play a 15- year career and have a couple celebration parades in downtown San Diego, so essentially what I would be is a 40- year- old ( expletive) with two Super Bowl rings.”
He might offer details of his “dream life” during his appearance Thursday on ESPN, which next month is scheduled to air a
30 for 30 documentary about Leaf. But he will express no regrets about his NFL career, during which he threw 14 touchdown passes, threw 36 interceptions and threw blame on just about anyone but himself.
“I don’t believe I was meant to be a professional quarterback,” he said. “I was meant to have these life experiences and be an impact on others who’ve struggled.
“The fact that I played football tends to get our foot in the door to maybe some closed- minded people who wouldn’t necessarily take a look at getting help. Or they can relate maybe more to a guy who had everything, seemingly had everything, wasted it all, and has found this peaceful life.”
But Leaf said he blames no one else for his struggles on and off the field. “I was the problem.” Now he is presented as hope. Last week, he spoke while sitting on a couch at the offices of Transcend, a recovery community with nine homes in the Los Angeles, New York and Houston areas. He is Transcend’s ambassador, telling his story, their story and how they came together.
‘ BOLT OF LIGHTNING STRUCK’
In March 2015, Transcend received a résumé from an applicant who was completing rehab in Malibu and whose work experience included “Quarterback for the San Diego Chargers.”
Asher Gottesman, chief executive officer at Transcend, soon met Leaf and learned about the quarterback’s troubled past and addiction to painkillers.
In retrospect, Leaf said, he needed help long before he swallowed his first Vicodin. The isolation that contributed to his addiction grew when he was a high school football star in Montana, according to Leaf.
“Some of the most successful and talented people are some of the loneliest because they isolate so much, and I certainly did the same,” he said.
His addiction to painkillers can be traced back to what was prescribed to him after several orthopedic surgeries during his NFL career, according to Leaf. But he said the addiction took hold only after he retired in 2002, and he recalled a night of drinking in Las Vegas when a boxing promoter offered him Vicodin.
“It affected me in a way where I didn’t feel judged when I was in a room,” Leaf said. “I was uninhibited. ... That night started about an eight- year run of offand- on opioid abuse that took my life to the very bottom.”
He was sentenced to seven years in prison after being convicted of burglarizing homes and stealing prescription medication.
Leaf said he would still be in prison now if not for his cellmate, an Iraq war veteran who encouraged him to help other inmates learn to read. “It was the first time I was of service to anybody that didn’t serve my interests,” Leaf said. “I can look back at it now and see that’s where the bolt of lightning struck.”
Granted parole in December 2014, he left prison with new purpose. Checking himself into rehab after cashing an insurance policy that helped cover the cost, Leaf heard about Transcend and its willingness to hire addicts in early recovery.
Eventually Leaf sent that résumé and scored an interview, and the quarterback who as an NFL rookie signed a four- year contract worth $ 31 million got a job offer: $ 15 an hour to drive people suffering from addiction, mental illness or substance abuse.
“To us, his recovery is about humility,” Gottesman said. “We wanted to make sure that it was true humility and not false humility. He literally passed everything with flying colors.”
Leaf was rewarded with a raise, the ambassador title and a job description that allows him simply to tell his story at schools, town halls, even on The Ellen Degeneres Show — despite the risks.
FATHERHOOD AWAITS
Without complaint, he shares an office with three other people. He makes no unilateral decisions, instead consulting a five- person “board of directors” that includes his fiancée, Anna Kleinsorge, a former volleyball player at Georgetown University.
“Because my best thinking takes me to a prison cell,” Leaf said of his decision- making process. “I don’t make the right choices. I never have.”
Now he is preparing to become a father, with Kleinsorge due to deliver a boy Oct. 1. And Leaf said bringing a child into the world with his last name was unthinkable two years ago.
“That’s still how shameful I was of the things I went through,” he said of the struggles he now speaks about regularly as Transcend’s ambassador. “The more and more I talk about it, I think it takes that power away of shame and guilt.”