Think twice before writing a bad review: Airbnb, Uber might do the same to you
It was just a matter of time.
All those one-star reviews you left for hotels and restaurants were bound to come back and haunt you.
And now they have. In a sharing economy, many of the big players, including Airbnb and Uber, allow drivers and hosts to review their guests. A negative rating can affect your ability to hire another car or rent an apartment.
“It’s always been a two-way street,” relationship expert April Masini explains. “But ‘The customer is always right’ becomes less clear as customers become vendors — and vendors become customers.”
Don’t I know. A few weeks ago, I rented a place in Colorado Springs through Airbnb. The aging two-bedroom house was a little run down, and the Internet barely worked. Our host informed us that our presence had forced her to move out of her home, and she left instructions to feed her cat.
When I inadvertently packed her house key in my luggage when I checked out — a mistake quickly remedied with a trip to the post office — she retaliated with a review that declared my family was “best suited to hotel stays.” Ouch.
Was I tempted to leave an angry rebuttal? Sure, but this kind of amateurism is pretty standard for Airbnb, and I didn’t want to hurt the owner’s business or starve her cat. Still, her little electronic jab left a mark.
It turns out, I’m not alone. Consider what happened to S.L. Wisenberg, a writer from Chicago, when she rented an apartment through Airbnb.
“There were roaches in the sink,” she says. “We left extra food, and the host condemned us for that and blamed food in (the) fridge for the roaches.” The resulting review by her landlord wasn’t favorable, and when Wisenberg tried to rent in Paris a few months later, one of the hosts turned her down.
She had to start using her husband’s account to rent through Airbnb but eventually came to a tacit understanding with her hosts: I won’t leave a negative review if you won’t.
It’s not just guests but riders, too. Earlier this year, Chantae Reden hailed an Uber and struck up a conversation with her driver. “Why do you have such a low Uber rating?” the driver asked Reden, a travel blogger from San Diego. “You seem friendly enough.”
Reden reviewed her last couple of Uber rides. They’d been completely uneventful, nothing that would merit a 4.6 rating. Then she realized that she had, in the past, canceled a few Uber rides, which caused the demerits.
I asked a friend who drives for Uber what’s happening behind the scenes. He said Uber drivers are required to rate their passengers on a scale of 1 to 5. “I must leave the review before I can receive my next ride,” he told me. “If we click 5 stars, that’s it and that’s all. If it’s less than 5, we have to give reasons, so it’s generally easier to leave 5 stars.”
In a sense, it’s high time that the tables are turned on guests, particularly the ones who slap an undeserved onestar rating on a hapless host. There’s still something about all this that seems silly and counter-productive. But if there’s a better way to hold a guest accountable for reckless behavior, it escapes me.
The fix? Be nice.