Life needs a fight
YOU can’t get a great life on a silver platter. A great and good life is not the absence of challenges. It always throws a lot at us. At times it’s extremely hard and excruciating, but should we give up? It’s hard to lose your hard-earned cash in an investment that did not work. It’s hard to see yourself having to pick broken pieces of a relationship that you have invested in for so many years. It’s hard! At times life is not fair — you attract enemies even when you are a good person.
There are difficult seasons that everyone goes through, yet every season has its challenges and opportunities. In many cases such times reshape out character to bring the best of us. Such times herald a new season that we are about to enter.
The bad behaviour we cannot conquer when we are in tough times determines how long we stay in the desert. Your dream will at one time make you stand in “…the midst of a fiery furnace”. This is good. You have to go through tough and rough times.
Elisha Goodman, in his book Passion Prayer of Jesus the Christ (2004) illustrates it so clearly; for David to reach the top, there was to be a Goliath. Goodman further says, “... your enemy is as important as your friends ... friends create comfort while your enemy creates rewards”.
Do you want to be rewarded? Then there has to be a test. Tests, trials and tribulations give birth to testimonies and triumphs. Storms are unavoidable, but misery (when passing through those storms) is what is optional.
In this instance, when things seem gloomy, that is when many give up not realising that it is like a woman giving birth — if she stops pushing she will experience at least one of many fates such as damaging the child or aborting. Some people have failed in the process, thereby aborting their dream.
Now, we stand on the edge with two options to embrace. One option is to abandon your dream in fear of the tests and the other is to dive into the dream and see yourself being battered left, right and centre to come out refined — finding yourself in the history books and rubbing shoulders with the great.
There are two people that we have on earth, connotatively, those that dream and those that sleep. Dreamers are those who have been branded by society as being ambitious, who love to see things happening and always want to make this world better than they found it; by making their own contributions.
Sleepers are those that do not care what happens. They are not into changing the world, but they are simply tossed to and fro by its change. At times they detest change and these are the people that have always wanted to be led, told what to do and they usually spend the rest of their lives being employees.
I am not saying quit your job, but be an engineer of your own destiny. The dreamer is innovative and creative; the sleeper is imitative and would want to maintain systems like some managers who have not grasped the power of leadership and change.
There are people who cause action and those who watch action and those who are reeling in confusion. They do not even know what causes action, how it is caused and they do not bother learning how to bring about action.
They specialise in wasting what others have toiled for. They do not necessarily get positive tests, but they just would want to always taste what others have done.
The problem with sleepers is that they are not in the archives of history. The unfortunate thing is that the sleepers do not leave a legacy; they are simply born so that they die.
On the other hand, dreamers leave a mark that future generations will always cherish. Now, I believe greatness does not just fall from the stars, but it is created by those who want to be great. Let us explore some of the practical tests that one goes through when they want to be on top.
Accuracy
This test measures your accuracy against your potential. It measures what I have professed to be, against what I have accomplished in my dreams. People are watching us — some saying Jonah, push and go up higher, but others are folding their hands and saying we want to see if he will make it.
Now, one is likely to be caught between two worlds here. One thinks “I do not have to disappoint my fans who are supporting me”, while the other says, “I have to prove myself to the enemy that I have what it takes to be the world’s greatest”. Both groups of people are important.
Acumen
In most jobs before you are employed, you are interviewed to prove your competence. Your expertise in the field that you are pursuing is core and the more you understand your strengths, the better in reaching your dream. The best thing in being successful is not the weaponry or tools you have at your disposal, but the proficiency to use them. This, therefore, calls for individuals that will seek to improve their skill. Do not be afraid to seek training, mentoring and learning so that when the test comes you will beat the rest.
Temperance
Restraint or self-control is important in all your success endeavours. As you go along, your temperance will go through fire. A good example is, if you want to prove the weakness of a preacher, just step on their toe or push them to the corner. They might punch you if their temper is not controlled. A snake is sometimes not dangerous if not disturbed, but the moment you step on its tail it strikes. Our temperance test in most cases comes when we are under pressure.
The temperance test has made me to learn it the hard way. When you are hot tempered, it is easy to throw a punch and before you know it you are behind bars for assault. When emotions subside or when you get back to your right senses, you regret. Along the way of success there is always a temperance test. Begin to control your temperance; otherwise it could bring a downfall to your dream.
Stamina
Stamina is all about how you endure, how you are determined to press on until your dream is delivered. In such instances, when your staying-power is tested, you could easily give up. Your stamina will determine your progress.
In the journey to success, stamina is to have the power to push on. Endurance is bitter, but its reward is sweet. So have the verve to press on. The courage to say I will fight until I hold it, I will read until I pass the test, I will pay the price despite what it costs, I won’t lose patience until I am on the pinnacle, I won’t stay down on my failures, until I be the first, I might be hearing dissenting and discouraging voices, but I will stay on my choices.
The process might be painful, but I will never let go the promises that God has given me. Reaching my Canaan may be very long and very laborious, but I will press on until I get my honey and milk. Mount Everest might be very tall, but it is too early for me to give in before I reach the crest. This is stamina!