My lover’s gun is too small

MY boyfriend has a small penis. I don’t enjoy sex and I have had to fake orgasms. Reply Let’s get this out of the way first: Penis size isn’t everything when it comes to sex. For some people, it may be a total non-issue. That’s because not everyone relies on penetration for sexual satisfaction, and actually, most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone anyway. That said, it’s normal to be a little caught off-guard if all of your previous sexual partners have been pretty similar, anatomically speaking, and this partner was smaller than average. And if you’re used to being with a well-endowed dude, that just might be your sexual preference — and there’s nothing wrong with that either. You don’t need a bigger penis to have all of the orgasms, but it is a sexual preference just like anything else. This is something to remember any time you have sex with someone new: Nerves, anxiety, and pressure can all do a number on a guy’s erection, which might mean he’s not getting as hard as he could be. This is actually totally normal — even for young men — especially if there’s not enough foreplay. It’s possible that as you become more comfortable with each other and have sex a few more times, you’ll find that his erections are actually stronger or longer. If you’re really wet, you might not feel as much sensation with a smaller-than-average penis. So I suggest you wipe away some of the excess lubrication and see what happens. Good luck.

My girlfriend cries during sex. She says it’s because she will be enjoying. I am afraid that I will be hurting her. — Worried. Reply Breaking into tears can sure seem intense in the moment. Sometimes those tears are a sign of it all being too much, but sometimes tears can be harmless, or even good! Plenty of women cry happy tears during sex. She might feel grateful that she feels safe enough with you to explore power-play. She might feel relieved that you are giving her permission to go to places that she may have not considered before. Or she might simply be feeling a lot of love for you in Send your sms to 0773111328 or 0772115830 or write to Sis Noe, Sunday News, Box 585, Bulawayo. You can also follow Sis Noe on http://sisnoe. blogspot.com Please note that Sis Noe is not a medical doctor but an elderly woman who has almost seen it all. She is a mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and aunt to many people. Those that require medical attention please visit the nearest clinic or hospital. Sis Noe is flattered by your confidence in her. Bombard her with social issues/ problems — she will be of much help to you. that moment. If that’s the case, let her cry! It might be because she is in pain. But since she said she’s not in pain, accept her explanation.

I think my boyfriend is ashamed to be with me. He always insists that we meet away from the public. Confused. Reply If I was you I would ask myself why I am still with a man who is ashamed of me. If someone cannot accept you for who you are then they don’t belong in your life. If you want me, you need to want all of me.