How do I define our relationship?

MY husband is so jealous that I have stopped being friends with males. Every man I know he accuses them of having an affair with me. Recently he has become friends with his workmate. He can’t stop talking about her. I told him I don’t like it and he said I am overreacting. Reply Your husband being friendly with this woman has brought back all those years when his jealousy made your life hell if you even looked at another man. So it feels particularly irritating that it’s alright for him to be friendly with someone of the opposite sex.

Explain this, and ask him to be more understanding, rather than just dismissing your feelings.

If he responds positively, then why not meet for a drink? But first your husband needs to be more reassuring and make you feel wanted and loved.

Recently I met a guy at a party and we had sex. Now we are always meeting for sex. I don’t know if I can call this a relationship or it’s just sex. We have not tried to define our relationship. I think I care about him. Send your sms to 0773111328 or 0772115830 or write to Sis Noe, Sunday News, Box 585, Bulawayo. You can also follow Sis Noe on http://sisnoe. blogspot.com

fleeting moment of pleasure. If he truly regrets what he has done and promises never to do it again, then your marriage could probably be saved.

My husband’s sister runs our marriage. She always has to have a say in almost everything that happens at our house. My husband tells her everything about us, even things he should not tell her. He says I should not be jealous because she is just his sister. When she visits he has no time for me. Her husband realises this but he says nothing. Reply It sounds as though his sister resents you and wants to be the number one woman in your husband’s life. The fact that he tells her everything about your life together only adds to your feeling of being pushed to the sidelines. She sounds controlling and her husband clearly finds it easier to keep the peace and opt out of saying anything, which is a pity. It would help if he told her that he felt left on the sidelines, too. You may feel jealous of your husband’s relationship with his sister, but I think that you have good reason. Tell him how much you love him and how good your relationship is most of the time. Then explain that, while it is nice that he is so close to his sister, you feel left out and ignored whenever she is around and that you need to feel loved and important to him when she is there. Be firm and say you don’t want him to share all the secrets of your marriage with her. SOULMATES I am a woman aged 23 looking for a man aged 27 to 32 who wants a serious relationship. I have two kids.

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