The Sunday Mail (Zimbabwe)

Woman gives birth to 44 children

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MARIAM NABATANZI was just 13 when she became mother of her first set of twins.

By the time she was 36, she had given birth to 42 more babies, whom she is having to raise alone after her husband walked out on the giant family.

Now 41, Mariam has been told she suffers from a rare genetic condition, which means she kept having multiple births — despite begging doctors for help when she was 23. Mariam has sets of quadruplet­s, triplets and twins, and incredibly manages to cater for them all on her own.

The fertile mum was just 12 when she got married. her husband — who, at 40 — was 28 years her senior. A year later, she gave birth to her first set of twins. Now, she and all of her kids have no choice but to live under appallingl­y cramped conditions.

Mariam, from Uganda, and her children live in an area surrounded by coffee fields.

A doctor warned the mother that birth control, like use of the pill, could cause her problems because she had unusually large ovaries. So, after her first set of twins, the babies just kept coming.

Ugandan families are often large, with women having five or six children on average. At just 23, Mariam had 25 children, and desperatel­y begged her doctor for help to stop her from having any more.

But once again, the medical advice was that she should keep getting pregnant because her ovary count was very high.

Mariam’s final pregnancy three years ago ended in tragedy, when she gave birth to her sixth set of twins.

One of the babies died while she was in labour and then her husband, who would often leave for weeks on end, left her for good. his name is now cursed in her family.

Mariam said: “I have grown up in tears. My man has made me go through a lot of suffering.

“All my time has been spent looking after my children and working to earn some money.”

But it was also after this birth that the mum finally got the medical help she needed to stop her from having more babies.

Dr Charles Kiggundu, a gynaecolog­ist at Mulago hospital in Kampala, Uganda, said: “her case is genetic predisposi­tion to hyper-ovulation, which means releasing multiple eggs in one cycle, which significan­tly increases the chance of having multiples; it is always genetic.”

Mariam confirmed doctors had taken action to remove the risk of her becoming pregnant again.

She said the doctor told her he had “cut my uterus from inside”.

Nothing will come in the way of the dedicated mother doing all she can to provide for her children.

She works as a hairdresse­r and event decorator. She also collects and sells scrap metal. Mariam brews her own local gin to sell, and makes herbal medicine. She is determined her children will have the very best start to life, with most of her earnings going towards food, medical care, clothes and school fees. hanging proudly on the wall of her tiny home are photos of her eldest children graduating from school.

Despite Mariam’s best efforts, one of her children, Ivan Kibuka, had to quit school to help raise the family.

The 23-year-old said: “Mum is overwhelme­d. The work is crushing her. We help where we can, like in cooking and washing, but she still carries the whole burden for the family. I feel for her.”

even Mariam’s early years were filled with heartbreak. her mother walked out on her, her father and her five brothers and sisters three days after she gave birth to her.

her father remarried and Mariam’s stepmother poisoned her elder siblings. They all died.

A visit to a relative meant Mariam escaped with her life.

She said: “I was seven years old then, too young to even understand what death actually meant. I was told by relatives what had happened.”

The scars of her ordeal meant Mariam was desperate for a family of her own to love, although she admits she only wanted six children.

her children have to make the best of what she manages to provide as a single parent. Metal bunk beds with thin mattresses are where 12 of her children sleep in one small room with walls caked with grime. Others have to share mattresses on the floor. Some sleep in the dirt because there is simply no space.

everyone tries to help with chores like cooking and cleaning. The older ones look after their younger siblings.

each day, Mariam uses 25 kilogramme­s of maize flour to ensure her children have enough to eat.

But fish and meat are rare treats for the family.

Mariam has to be organised to make sure each day runs smoothly, so there is a rota of cooking and washing duties on a wooden board in the family home. — Wires

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