When pets misbehave

Here’s how to address three common problem areas so your animal kingdom can live in peace and harmony.

Make sure your dog has lots of chewable toys and rotate them frequently to prevent boredom. “Chewing is a normal and necessary behaviour,” says Andrea Arden, trainer and pet expert. “It helps prevent tooth and gum disease, boredom and stress-related behavioural problems.” But, says certified dog trainer Colleen Demling-Riley, “If you catch them chewing something they shouldn’t, take it, calmly say ‘no’ and replace it with a chewable toy, praising your dog as they grab the toy so they understand the right targets.” And if your pooch chews when you’re not there, both experts advise using a crate or an exercise pen to keep them contained.

First, check with your vet to see if your cat has a urinary tract infection or other medical issue, says Andrea. If that’s not it, think about what else is going on. “Behavioural changes may be due to household stress,” she points out. Moving house, new family members or schedule changes can make your cat unhappy. Your kitty also may not like the litter box itself. So, try moving it to a secluded location, changing the brand of litter, or getting a new box that is larger or has a different style. And make sure you clean it regularly. Cats can be picky about their toilet set-up, but making little adjustments can often resolve the issue.

Give your cat or dog something else to do. Young pets get ‘mouthy’ because that’s how they play with their own species and they don’t realise humans don’t like it, Andrea explains. Both cats and dogs can learn to fetch, which keeps their mouth focused on a toy instead of your hands. “When they’re playing training games with you, they’re concentrating on something other than nipping,” she says. “And, at the same time, you’re developing a more cooperative and respectful relationship.” You can also try leaving the room or going inside the house when your pet nips. That lets them know that biting is a no-no and they’ll be less inclined to do it over time.

What humans consider bad behaviour is often a natural instinct for cats and dogs, but that doesn’t mean you have to let it continue on your carpet.

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