“Jean Twenge was the first to sound the alarm when her 2017 viral Atlantic article asked: ‘Have smartphones destroyed a generation?’ Since then, she has been a leading voice—and my research partner—in documenting the rising damage to children’s development caused by the phone-based childhood. In this book she goes beyond documentation and tells us all what we can do as parents to protect our children without cutting them off from technology and each other. If you can apply even a few of these ten rules, you’ll have a happier family and healthier kids.”
—Jonathan Haidt, NYU-Stern School of Business and #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Anxious Generation
Description
Jean Twenge, PhD, award-winning professor of psychology and author of the “lavishly informative” (The New York Times) Generations, returns with a concrete and accessible guide to raising resilient, successful, happy children in a time of overwhelming technological intrusion.
Parenting today often feels like an uphill battle, with technology invading every corner of our kids’ lives. From the rise of social media addiction to the growing mental health crisis among children and teens, parents are grappling with how they can create a healthy, balanced relationship with technology for their kids.
Bestselling author Jean Twenge provides the much-needed playbook parents have been asking for. Drawing on her decades as a psychologist studying the impact of technology and mental health and her personal experience as the mother of three teenagers, Twenge offers ten actionable rules for raising independent and well-rounded children. From setting “No Social Media Until 16” boundaries to creating no-phone zones like bedrooms and family dinners, these rules are grounded in evidence yet simple enough to incorporate into any family routine.
Short, empowering, and timely, this book equips parents with the tools to combat not just immediate harms such as online bullying but also helps to nurture essential life skills, preparing kids and teens to become autonomous adults.
Reviews
“This is the book every parent has been looking for—a practical guide that cuts through the hype with real-world advice to make your children safer and happier starting today.”
—Michele Borba, Ed.D., Educational Psychologist and bestselling author of Thrivers
“In 10 clear, actionable steps backed by research and real-life stories, Twenge provides a comprehensive manual for caregivers. Parents of school-age children, as well as educators tired of competing for students’ attention, will find this a boon..”
—Publishers Weekly
“Jean Twenge offers parents exactly what they need: practical, evidence-based guidance for healthy tech boundaries. This essential roadmap empowers families to put technology in its proper place so that children can thrive both online and offline. In a world designed to keep kids scrolling, this book helps them start living.”
—James P. Steyer, Founder and CEO, Common Sense Media