BREAKING UP WAS THE MAKING OF ME

Bianca Barton’s story, ‘Divorce settlement’ (June), resonated with me. My partner left me five years ago and, while it felt awful at the time, I now realise that it was the best thing for me and my family.

It took me three years before I saw that I was living in denial, saying

I was fine and even liking the ‘you’re coping so well’ comments – and then I hit rock bottom, my career nosedived and I knew I needed help.

It was the start of a difficult but amazing journey to rediscover myself. Now, my ex and I are on amicable terms, my son has two loving homes and I’ve completed a master’s degree. It’s often the toughest moments that show us how resilient we are and open up opportunities! Thanks for reminding me how far I’ve come.