Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either

Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve

Description

Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!

Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never "the one," but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married -- you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure.

The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love, "with a great guy who is into you." So raise your standards -- and reach for the love you deserve!

About the author(s)

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He contributes regularly to CNN on topics related to sex and relationships and  is the co-founder of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of the oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities in New York City.

Reviews

“Love Sex and the City? Revisit the world of strategic dating with Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either.” — People

“Be Honest is about figuring out how to best serve your own needs, . . . and still respect yourself.” — Elle.com

“Ian Kerner is that rare man who truly loves women and wants to help them.” — From the foreword by Amy Sohn, New York magazine columnist

“A funny and truly helpful look at what modern women may have forgotten (or just won’t admit) about themselves. — Jane Buckingham, author of The Modern Girl's Guide to Life

“Witty and informed.” — Us Weekly

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